VIRTUALY IN LOVE

In the past, lovers used to send each other love letters that, despite obstacles and distance, kept their relationship vivant. This way, the long waiting period till they could see each other again seemed bearable.

Today, the internet became a new messenger for the lonely ones, the ones searching for a relationship or persons that want to communicate with off-shares friends or lovers and family.
Aside words, in a face to face encounter partners exchange gestures, looks, caresses, inviting each other to go on. The look in her eyes can encourage you; his smile can show you how happy he is to be in your company.

Distance relationships don’t give you the advantage of seeing the gestures and reactions of the other person. You are never quite certain that your message will be appreciated. There are many factors that influent the chances to receive an answer that can live up to expectations. Despite this reality, you must use wisely the minimum of control you hold.

When sending that email, you must create an adequate atmosphere by choosing an appealing subject for your email. Write something like “For your eyes only” or “To read when you need me”.

You must always state clearly your desires and be much more forward online than in real life. If you are not, the other person might think you have forgotten everything you had.

Creating a romantic atmosphere over the internet can be tricky, but if you both want it, it can be done. All you have to do is help each other. If you are trying to understand the other person’s reaction, just test them. Send emails that use a personal tone, full of big words and somehow try to set them in an imaginary romantic and ideal world. Some world you can now refer to as your world, a world that might appeal to your interlocutor.

If you have an email describing events from your friends life, pay attention to them. Try to show you really read the email by referring to each and every moment described in a different sentence. Have opinions and give advice.

When romantically corresponding, you must rise above your real experiences. If In real life you are shy, here you are not allowed to. Just relax and create a romantic atmosphere in your room and the right words will appear themselves.

A NIGHT OF SPECIAL EFFECTS

Valentine’s Day isn’t all about giving presents, kisses and making love declarations. In order to be somewhat more effective there has to be created a romantic atmosphere everywhere the lovers will go. And especially when the evening comes and a romantic dinner just has to take place.

You have to prepare early and let your imagination go wild. And this is all so you two will be able to express freely on Valentine’s Day.

What is the thing you need the most to create the desired effects?

Candles … Lots of them … Of different colors and dimensions … The predominant color has to be red, the color that is considered to be the color of love. They can be placed anywhere in the room: near the windows so their light would seem to come from out there somewhere, on the nightstands, on the desk and in every other corner of your room.

It’s going to be a long dinner and a long evening, so the candles will have to burn a long time. Pick candles in small bowls or if you choose bigger bowls you can let them burn without any worries: they will burn but nothing else will catch fire around them.

If you can’t agree with candles, pick then some scarves to throw over the light sources. They have to be colored, preferably red, but they can also come in the color you both like. Keep in mind that the material they are made of must not have plastic fibers in it so that it won’t heat and you can eat your dinner without having to worry about them. If scarves are chosen, the light will be softer and the room invaded with many effects.

Don’t forget the aromatherapy bowls and the perfumed sticks. Your loved one will appreciate if you will use his or hers favorite scent. If you like more the perfume of fresh flowers, pick a discreet bouquet of your favorite ones and place them somewhere around.

Keep in mind that dinner must be something you both like and has to last longer. So, pick different food types and a desert that seems appropriate. The desert would have to have some hearts or cupids design on it if possible. If you don’t cook, order food early and make sure it gets delivered right on time.

Hindari 7 Pembunuh Cinta Ini

Pasangan Anda akhir-akhir ini sering menghindar? Sudah mulai bosan atau sering terlibat pertengkaran? Hubungan yang dijalankan selama bertahun-tahun mulai terasa hambar?

Segera hapus tujuh pembunuh rasa cinta yang biasanya menggerogoti cinta antara wanita dan pria. Ini daftarnya seperti dikutip dari laman Shine.

1. Tidak lagi berhubungan seks

Seks sangat penting dalam sebuah hubungan rumah tangga. Beberapa menit
Anda habiskan untuk saling bermanja, berciuman, atau berpelukan akan
menguatkan jalinan cinta Anda. Hal ini seperti lapisan gula pada kue
bolu, lapisan yang membuat kebersamaan Anda terasa sangat manis.

2. Rasa bosan

Rasa bosan biasanya pakaian terbaik untuk para wanita. Anda mulai
pasrah terhadap pasangan Anda dan melupakan semua hal menarik di
dirinya. Tidak seperti hari-hari awal Anda menjalankan kehidupan rumah
tangga. Berjuanglah untuk membawa kegembiraan kembali ke dalam
hubungan. Anda pun akan segera mengingat mengapa Anda jatuh cinta pada
pasangan Anda.

3. Pecinta masa lalu

Beberapa wanita tidak pernah puas pada pacar masa lalu mereka. Mereka
terus-menerus membandingkan mantan pacar mereka dengan pasangan mereka saat ini. Jangan hidup di dunia penuh fantasi. Jika pria yang Anda kencani dulu lebih baik dari suami Anda sekarang, Anda pasti masih bersama dengannya. Bahagiakan suami Anda dan mantan pacar Anda menjadi bagian dari sejarah.

4. Mertua yang terlalu ikut campur

Kebanyakan pria (dan wanita) tidak mampu menghadapi mertua seperti yang mereka lakukan kepada istri mereka. Bekerjasamalah dengan suami Anda untuk mengatasi sifat ikut campur mertua Anda sehingga dia dapat keluar dari kehidupan rumah tangga Anda.

5. Anak-anak nakal

Kelakuan anak-anak terkadang sering membuat pusing orangtua. Orangtua akan sangat fokus mengatasi kenakalan anak-anak mereka. Hal inilah yang membuat Anda lupa untuk juga memperhatikan suami Anda. Stres yang menimpa Anda ini yang akan meretakkan hubungan Anda dan suami. Namun sesungguhnya, dalam menghadapi anak, Anda harus bekerja sama dengan suami. Hal inilah yang dapat membuat hubungan Anda semakin erat. Jika tetap tidak berhasil, mintalah saran pada orang-orang yang Anda percaya.

6. Masalah keuangan

Uang memengaruhi pola pikir seseorang dengan cara yang unik. Sayangnya, kekurangan uang dapat memberikan dampak negatif pada cara berpikir seseorang. Hanya orang-orang yang mampu bekerja sama mengatasi masa-masa sulit tersebutlah yang dapat bertahan. Orang-orang tersebut pun akan dapat mengatasi masalah-masalah lain yang menghadang.

7. Harapan yang tidak realistis

Dongeng seperti Snow White telah merusak kehidupan cinta banyak wanita. Mereka terus menunggu pangeran tampan untuk muncul dan membahagiakan mereka. Sayangnya, pria ini tidak pernah benar-benar ada. Jadilah bijak dan pilih seorang pria dengan lima kualitas yang dapat membahagiakan Anda dan bekerja sama dengan Anda dalam menjalani masalah-masalah kehidupan. Harapan Anda pun akan lebih realistis, dan Anda akan jauh lebih bahagia. (vivanews)

Inilah Gaya Wanita Yang Memikat Pria !

Ilmuwan menemukan rahasia merayu seorang perempuan. Pria tidak bisa mengalihkan perhatian dari Anda jika memiringkan kepala di posisi yang tepat. Rahasia daya tarik perempuan ternyata terletak dari kemiringan kepala seorang perempuan. Penelitian menunjukkan bahwa kita dapat membuat diri tampak lebih menarik hanya dengan menggeser posisi wajah dengan tepat.

Perempuan dinilai lebih memikat jika mereka menaruh kepala cenderung ke depan dan menengok sedikit ke atas. Sebaliknya, laki-laki lebih maskulin jika mereka memundurkan kepala dan sedikit menengok ke bawah menuju arah hidung. Berdasarkan keterangan tim peneliti hubungan lawan jenis Dr. Darren Burke dan Dr. Danielle Sulikowski, ini menunjukkan perbedaan posisi antara perempuan dan pria. Dr. Burke yang juga dosen psikologi di University of Newcastle Australia mengatakan bahwa nilai menarik suatu wajah dari perspektif evolusi telah dipelajari terus menerus oleh para ahli. Meskipun pengaruh fitur feminin dan maskulin telah diamati sejak lama, namun ada kesenjangan informasi soal maskulinitas dan feminitas terkait fitur wajah. Ilmuwan meminta para relawan memberi penilaian dari model 3 D komputer di berbagai posisi wajah. Dr Sulikowski mengatakan dalam jurnal ilmiah Evolutionary Psychology , temuan tersebut menawarkan beberapa petunjuk untuk membantu mengungkap misteri ritual suatu hubungan. "Temuan-temuan ini berkontribusi besar terhadap pemahaman kita tentang peran daya tarik wajah dalam evolusi."

How to Meet Women While Working Out !

One of the main reasons you put your time in at the gym is to make sure women don't find you physically repulsive when you're not at the gym. Sure, it's possible to pick up women at the gym, but it can be tough when your face is grotesquely twisted in agony as you do drop sets.

Still, you can work out and meet women … you just have to choose your workouts. Not all of them are for every guy — um, how do you feel about trapezes? — but you'll find at least one here that'll be both enjoyable and productive.

Beach volleyball
Whether you join a pick-up game or an actual league, it's great for meeting people. For one, you're all wearing bathing suits. Plus, it's a team sport, so you have an immediate reason to bond with and chat up your teammates.


Co-ed softball
Okay, it's slightly less sexy than beach volleyball — polyester baseball pants do no one any favors — but it's also more laid back. For instance, any self-respecting softball team goes out for post-game beers … or even better, enjoys during-game beers.

Tennis
One great thing about tennis is that men and women can often play competitively against each other. So show up with a buddy and challenge a pair of women to a doubles — or mixed doubles — game.

Yoga or Pilates
It's easy to look like a total jackass, but the payoff can be great. So do your homework. Buy a DVD and practice the basic moves at home before you join a class; that way, you won't look around cluelessly when asked to get into Child's Pose … though you may not be able to help ogling while in Downward Facing Dog.

Trapeze or Cirque Classes
Sure, there are downsides: One, you'll be flying through the air and may feel absolutely ridiculous. Also, any male instructors are sure to be shirtless and in crazy shape. Still, you'll get major points for being open-minded enough to try it, and the adrenaline rush your fellow classmates will feel will make them want to do be daring after class as well.